Our first long haul flight with Liam

I meant to blog about our first flight with Liam but couldn’t find time. Liam is now downstairs playing happily in his playpen so I figured, it’s time!

So, back in August, we flew to London to visit family as well as to sneak in a mini Eurotrip. We booked the tickets quite early on and we meant to take a couple of short flights before to try to gauge Liam’s flying demeanour but we ended up doing none of those.

We opted for baptism of fire, going straight for a 13 hour direct light to London with a 1 year old baby.

In hindsight, I think we were pretty crazy haha.

So how did we prepare for the flight? I brought my baby carrier, 5 packets of his favourite Meiji crackers and hmm…that’s all.

I had meant to bring some small toys but I had genuinely forgotten as we packed really late. I even forgot his jumper. #terriblemummy

One of the things that I worried about when it comes to flying with a baby was, what happened to the stroller? I wasn’t sure whether we could bring it onboard or whether we had to check it in. I certainly didn’t want to check it in as there’s risk of damage.

Waiting to board.

Anyway, my fears were unfounded. We didn’t have to check in the stroller.

In fact, all we needed to do was leave our pram at the plane door and the wonderful cabin crew would deal with it. Up until that point, I had toyed with the idea of getting a compact stroller for travelling but I no longer harbour such desires.

My boys on the way to our inaugural family holiday abroad.

We had already called MAS earlier for bassinet seats and so yay…legroom!

Take off was a breeze, didn’t even need to boob him. He didn’t seem very bothered by the change in pressure, which I was thankful for.

He was sufficiently entertained by a few empty plastic cups and biscuits.

The bassinet was heaven-sent, it’s so nice that I didn’t have to have a 8kg heatpack lying on my chest all the time hehe.

Look at what a good time he is having in the bassinet, lying down with one hand holding the cups while the other hand holding his soggy biscuit.

Our entire strategy on the flight was to keep him occupied with plastic cups, food, milk or sleep.

Whenever Liam slept, we slept too. Gareth and I also took turns to sleep whenever possible. We managed to sleep in more than half the duration of the flight. Combined hours of course, not uninterrupted sleep lol ;)

While daddy slept, I entertained the baby and vice versa.

Bringing the Bjorn onboard was also the best thing ever. Whenever he got a bit too restless, I would just strap him on and walked up and down the plane. The constant motion helped to get him to nap.

I even had mood to selfie in the lavatory and slapped on some moisturiser lol

Before long, we landed!

So our first long haul flight with Liam was pretty good, all things considered.

I have read that some parents prefer night flight cause their bubs could sleep but after experiencing night flight on the way back to KL, we are very confident that we prefer day flights as there’s no added pressure about waking anyone up haha

Our flight back to KL, which was a night flight was actually not too bad, but it surely was not as pleasant as the day flight to London. There was a minor incident that I should probably blog about it too, as it involved another couple with a similarly aged baby who sat next to us.

Anyway, Liam did very well on his first flight and we are glad that we don’t have to worry too much in subsequent flights.

13 hour was about pushing the limit and I reckon we could breeze through all the 4 hour or 8 hour type flights in the future :)

Liam’s 1st Birthday Aviation Theme Party – My DIY Journey

The canopy is gone. Furniture back at their original places. Cake stands and bowls and decorations stowed away, till the next party. Maybe Liam’s 21st birthday lol

Thank you everyone for coming to Liam’s first birthday party, especially to my Dayre family the #bahamasmoms.

Thank you for all the amazing and thoughtful gifts for Liam, they will last him for a few years! Liam is a lucky chap to have received so much love 💗.

I have written extensively about my DIY journey on Dayre but I think it might be interesting to my non-Dayre readers so am going to reproduce the story here.

When it was time to plan for Liam’s birthday, I had two themes in mind; nautical or aviation. In the end I went with the latter cause I want to keep nautical theme for a pool party when he’s older heheheh.

Next thing was to start a Pinterest board of course. I think I surfed Pinterest almost everyday! Initially asked for quotations for feature table but coiled in horror at the price :P So I decided to do it myself.

I chose this as my inspiration picture. I didn’t want to (or more precisely, couldn’t) emulate it but I like how it’s got many layers and textures and most importantly I can pull it off with using recycled materials.

For the cake toppers, I made airplanes out of wooden clothes peg and art sticks. “Clouds” made with scrunched up white paper. Bought the candle which I hated coz it’s green but it grew on me and I used it in the end eventhough I had bought another candle that’s white with red piping.

Made a cardboard box plane for photobooth. This took the longest time but not too bad.

I wrapped the main body in brown paper cause it was a colourful cardboard box pre-transformation. Only two boxes were used to make the plane. The backdrop was leftover fabrics from my DIY ballroom ceiling streamers for my wedding. Just simply clipped them to my curtains with clothes-pegs. I actually bought cheap polyester pillows, hoping I could pin the filling onto the fabric to simulate clouds but that didn’t happen cause the filling was so crumbly so had to abandon that idea lol

My baby pilot in his private plane :)

As for printables, I only needed two types; cupcake toppers and mineral water labels. So, I errrrrrrrrmm stole the design somewhere and then I used photoshop to customise it to my liking. I kept the basic design, just redo the text and coloured it differently.

As you can see it was too annoying to cut the toppers out properly so I just cut them circles straight.

Cupcake toppers in action.

Gareth helped me to cut water bottle labels.

The customised water bottles.

Now let’s talks about the cupcakes. I wanted non fondant cupcakes and birthday cake. For the cupcakes, I got 3 flavours; salted caramel, rose lychee and banana walnut. The birthday cake was pandan gula melaka flavour.

All from home baker DK Bakes. You can find her on Facebook and IG.

I love her because not only her cakes are yummy, she totally came up with what I had envisioned. For instance, I wanted a simple tall non fondant cake and she delivered. She could see what I was really gunning for and she wasn’t pushy with her own aesthetics.

She gave me a few relevant pointers and that’s it while there was one pretty popular baker that I also spoke with and he quoted me exorbitantly and then subtly talked down on me about not getting an extravagant fondant cake. I mean, after like 30 minutes of explaining to this person what I wanted, he said yes he understood what I meant and sent me a picture of a spherical 3D fondant cake with a flying pig, I am not kidding you!!

Anyway, my point is I am really pleased with DK Bakes and if you’re looking for cakes, look no further.

These salted caramel cupcakes were finishing up real quick!

The yummy banana walnut cake.

The rose lychee was really popular too, I wish I had ordered more of these.

And Liam’s birthday cake with my homemade toppers. This is pandan and gula melaka cake. So moist and delicious!

So this is how my dining table looks on the eve of party.

I don’t have old wooden boxes or old suitcases so I saved paper boxes of various sizes to be wrapped up in papers in the right colour palate. Means like brown-ish colours.

I found gift wrapping papers with passports and airline tickets stubs printed all over it in Tesco so I bought 30 pieces lol. Then I also found one in fake wood design.. so I bought 20 pieces. I also found a massive roll of brown paper that I had bought years ago which fit well with my colour scheme.

The stripey blue/white table cloth is actually a fabric I bought for my fantasy of sewing a maxi skirt. So now if I really sew it, means I will be wearing a table cloth hahaha.

The triangle flag buntings were made with the wrapping papers. No precision involved, just fold and cut into triangles, punched holes and run a string through. All glassware you see are stuff I already have. So is the chopping board.

The wooden planes were bought from an art shop. When I saw them I couldn’t resist! Quite easy to assemble, I just hotglued all the pieces together.

Some mini plastic planes from Daiso which I spray-painted white. The paper balls were bought from Aliexpress.

The backdrop are pinwheels and wheels made with the same loot of wrapping papers. Doily on the wheel is from my kitchen. The letters I cut out from a corrugated cardboard I got from an Ikea box. Thank goodness my son’s name has only 4 letters!!

The final look of the table. With all the cakes and snacks on.

With the birthday boy!

With our long time buddies :)

With my my Dayre family, the #bahamasmoms and their bubs, who make motherhood so much more fun! 💗

With more mummy friends!

I had lots of fun preparing for this party. I know Liam doesn’t know what’s going on but am sure he will have fun looking back at these pictures when he’s older. I think he had lotsa fun though, having so many of his friends to play with on that day :)

I end this post with my favourite picture from the party:

Happy 1st birthday my dearest son. Mummy and daddy love you so much and we hope you will grow up to be healthy, kind and honest. As your daddy always say, you won’t go wrong with those qualities.

Our first family getaway.

I don’t remember the last time I actually did something on my laptop. Seated down and taking my sweet time typing something out.

If you’re reading this post, it means I have actually managed to blog properly!

I was very determined, because I needed to do some research on Liam’s first birthday party. If you have forgotten who Liam is, well he’s my 10 month old son.

So I nursed him in bed till he fell asleep and slowly ninja-ed out from beneath him.

Put baby to nap – DONE!

So lets get to what I’m really here for. Our first family vacation to….. deng deng deng Cherating! Hehe.

We obviously started with an easy one.

Crap! Spoke too soon.

He has woken up from his nap -_-
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So I am blogging with my phone now in bed while bub plays with his toy steering wheel.

He hasn’t gotten it right yet.
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Bloody hell. Something is wrong with my blogging app, the photos keep going missing. Ain’t nobody got time for that!

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So this was 3 days ago FML. This is my life now, a simple task takes forever to accomplish as I constantly get interrupted. I am not complaining, just stating a fact of my life. I love being a mommy to Liam. My love tank is full :)

So yes, back to our very first family vacation! It’s kind of like a belated mother’s day getaway, arranged by the husband. Thank you hubs!

Checked-in!

Explored the balcony. With supervision eheh.

Went swimming.

Went to the beach.

Sat in the dirtiest baby chair ever that no amount of wet wipes could clean. Luckily we had towels in the car. He didn’t seem too bothered about it.

Ate a french fry for the first time (after I licked off all the salt hehe)

Walked on sand for the first time, and loving it.

Drank beer.

On the way back from Cherating, we popped by my granny’s so Liam could visit his maternal great grandmother.

Okay, it’s 1.30pm now I can hear the bub rousing from his sleep. Got to go! Hopefully not too long before I blog here again!

In the meantime, you can catch me on Dayre.