Another argument over the same issue. How the fuck am I supposed to explain why Iām jealous. I just bloody am. Am I insecure? I donāt know, maybe. Truth is, itās not even about you. But it would have hurt if I had said that, wouldnāt it?
I think women are just generally competitive, please correct me if Iām wrong. Weāre constantly comparing, who have better hair, who have leaner arms, whoās got a better personality, whoās more intelligent and the list goes on forever. Itās just something that we do, consciously or unconsciously.
Sometimes, you donāt even know this person but you develop a dislike towards her, just because she has better hair and she flirts like a ho (although nobody sees through that except you!) and then, you build on the dislike from snippets of accounts by other people who had contact with this person. And BAM, a fresh villain is born!
But you know itās jealousy. I know itās jealousy and it is unwarranted. But 99% of the time I just let my inner bitch goes around her own business as long as she doesnāt screw up my day-to-day life. That is till your boyfriend/husband or good friend decides to fuel your jealousy. āHey, that girlās got nice hairā.
I went fucking livid. āShut up, I donāt want to hear her being talked about favourably in our houseā. āWhy, Iām just stating a fact. Sheās got nice hair. Youāre with me and I want only youā. War ensues.
You get my gist?
Of course, this is not just about hair, itās only a hypothetical situation. I donāt expect men to understand that, especially not self-absorbed men. But ladies, do you get this as well?